My partner doesn't want a doula. Can a doula help if dad is present?

I agree with DONA's position, that ideally a doula and the birth partner make the perfect support team for the woman, complementing each other's strengths. With a doula present, the pressure on the father is decreased and he can participate at his own comfort level. Fathers often feel relieved when they can rely on a doula for help; they enjoy the experience more. For those fathers who want to play an active support role, the doula assists and guides them in effective ways to help their loved ones in labor. Partners other than fathers also appreciate the doula's support, reassurance and assistance.
I receive feedback from dads that having me there so they could eat, go to the bathroom, take a 20 min. nap, and take turns rubbing, squeezing, and counting made the experience memorable and doable for them. When I arrive at a birth I observe what is happening, notice where there are gaps in support (if any) and then quietly fill needs where they present themselves.

Aren't doulas just for births without pain medication?

“Doula” literally translates to “mother-to-the-mother”. I am there to support the mother, regardless of her pain medication preference, or type of birth. For moms choosing to use epidurals, I can help manage the discomfort of early labor until labor has progressed enough to get an epidural. There are always times that epidurals do not take, so having me there to help manage discomfort and fear during an unplanned pain medication free labor is very beneficial. I can also help suggest pushing positions other than on your back, even with an epidural, which can shorten the pushing stage and reduce the risk of Cesarean.

I'm having a Cesarean. Why would I want a doula?

With a planned Cesarean, there are some hospitals who allow two labor support people into the operating room. With a dad and myself, mom and baby will always have someone with them. I can also take pictures and stay with mom while dad introduces baby to family.

What happens if you can't get to my birth?

I work with back-up doulas so that there will be labor support at your birth. There are circumstances such as illness, vacation, overlapping labors, or long labors that require having a trusted, like-minded back up doula. You will always be able to meet my back-up to make sure you are comfortable with her.

Do you have references? What about recommended reading, classes, or other suggestions for me going into birth?

During our interview I will provide you with references, upon your request. I have a list of books, movies, and other resources available for you during prenatal appointments.